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The True CRPS Hero
By Linda Lang
Many people suffer from devastating
diseases. In the case of cancer, for example, our reactions
are predictable. We want to help find a cure for the disease.
We applaud those who face their illness with courage and we
sympathize with their pain. If their cancer goes into remission,
we rejoice with them; if it does not, we cry with them. We
would never think of attaching personal blame to those whose
battle with the disease is not successful, nor would we confuse
a cure with the personal ability of a patient to fight the
disease. Instead, we speak of miracles, of wonder drugs, of
successful new treatments. We easily separate the disease
from the person and our praise is applied appropriately. Lance
Armstrong, for example, is seen as a hero not because his
cancer went into remission, but because he did not let the
fact of his cancer stand in the way of his training for and
winning the Tour de France.
Somehow, we apply different standards
when it comes to CRPS. We, too, equate a patient's efforts
with the outcome of the syndrome. If the CRPS goes into
remission, the person, not the treatment, is considered a
"success." The opposite follows; if the syndrome
worsens, it is somehow seen as the fault of the patient. Granted,
patients have personal responsibilities in order to help themselves.
They must follow the established treatment plan, which may
mean taking medications appropriately, participating in physical
therapy, learning and carrying out stress-reduction techniques,
eating a balanced diet, and so forth.
A patient who does all of this certainly
deserves praise because the treatments can often be painful
and difficult. If the treatment is successful, however, the
patient can no more take personal credit for it than can the
cancer patient who has gone into remission. By the same token,
you cannot blame patients whose syndrome progresses despite
their best efforts and those of the medical professionals.
Having CRPS is neither a punishment
nor a gift. It just is. The same applies to the course the
syndrome takes. While patients can certainly help in their
recovery, the recovery itself is a fact to which no praise
or blame should be attached. The successful CRPS patient
is not necessarily one whose symptoms have lessened. In fact,
more often the opposite is true. The CRPS hero is one
who has accepted having CRPS and yet continues to build
a meaningful life. The successful CRPS patients are those
who, despite living with devastating pain and disability,
feel that they are people apart from their syndrome and can
find pleasure in what they are still able to do. The CRPS
"hero" does not waste time feeling angry or apathetic.
Instead, he or she concentrates on finding ways to grow and
expand. There will certainly be times when the pain escalates
and the syndrome feels like it is gaining the upper hand,
but they somehow find strength within themselves to ride out
those times. Rather than feeling sorry for themselves, they
want to help others and no matter how difficult things get,
they find the strength to go on, living their lives to the
fullest extent possible. The true CRPS "hero"
is everyone of you who is reading this article and I applaud
your tremendous effort.
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